The married man cannot be mixed with the older man (see here and there ),cause it’s not about his age, especially in here where men get married before 25 years old –without mentioning the wives’ age… to me and to middle eastern habits I might be considered as a spinster for 5 years already!
First of all, the married man feature is the ring he wears on his left hand. Or not. Cause if most of them like to proudly sport the expressive I-am-engaged-jewelry, some others, more fallacious, simply spare of it, and even more easily as the wife doesn’t live in the same country. Not yet.
There is two ways for the married man to be envisaged. The first is to desperately believe one day he will leave his wife and wait and see, and wait and badly hope that day will come. In the meantime, the mistress could have issued a rating guide about hotels quality, from the crappiest one to the 5 stars one, according to the married man’ s manners. And also according to his longing throughout time.
The second option, healthier to our opinion, is to consider the married man as he per se is, a non-plan. Which is perfect, as you were not expecting a plan but a rebound-man. As his wife is far away being the girl attached to this specific port could be quite funny for a while. Nevertheless the wife, without any notice, can join the home. At that point the guy has two options, a. to come back home and quit adultery forthwith and remain like that for good or b. stimulated by the fear, the risk the desire can be doubled up.
But by dint (cause in every mistress there is an hidden willing-to-get-married-girl), the paramour will terminate the affair that non-plan, because the mistress she currently is worries the wife she will be.